#MeToo Highlights Rape Culture, in Stories Told and Untold

By Jess Tomlin

This week, the hashtag #MeToo went viral, highlighting the magnitude of sexual assault around the world.

The origins of the #MeToo movement demonstrate the domino effect at its best–starting with a brave idea and quickly blooming into a movement. #MeToo has since taken off in multiple languages (such as #yotambién #moiaussi) and in multiple countries.

Indeed, one in three (35%) women worldwide has experienced sexual violence in her lifetime. No doubt, if these past few days are an indication, this number is vastly underreported.

My own #MeToo, posted here and on my own social media pages, is not just a reflection on one event but, rather, on a lifetime. First as a child. As a student. As an employee.

Women around the world are in a state of contemplation. Should they post? What are the risks? Who’s actually out there listening, and what will change?

Today, as the CEO of Canada’s only global fund for women and girls, I have a platform to harness this global moment of contemplation. My organization invests in women and girls at the grassroots in countries like India, Kenya, and Guatemala. In some of these countries, groups of women are rendered invisible, denied access to the internet and/or forbidden from leaving the house. In others, rape culture is so deeply ingrained that women and girls live in constant fear of sexual violence.

But, the point is, don’t we all?

The threat of sexual assault is such that young girls are taught to walk with their keys fanned between their knuckles. Girls are constantly policed for what they wear, say, and do, lest they invite advances. Indeed, my own 8 year old daughter won’t wear her favourite flowered shorts because the boys always try to peek at her underwear when she wears them.

Despite deeply ingrained societal messages to the contrary, sexual assault is neither a woman’s fault nor a woman’s problem. Indeed, the #MeToo movement serves as a reminder that, no matter what does or does not go viral on social media, the real virus is sexual assault: the perpetrators, the enablers, the existing cone of silence.

Not everyone can risk sharing their story. For some, the stakes are just too high. And for others, “Me Too” takes a different form, demonstrating the many ways and many corners of the world in which women’s bodies are assaulted, policed, and controlled:

If the brave posts shared by women this weekend tell us anything, it’s this: movements are made up of individuals–those who have stories to tell and those who have platforms to amplify those stories. And movements eventually get so big, powerful and undeniable that they cannot be ignored.

Women around the world show us every day that they believe a better world is possible. And to that, I say, #MeToo.

This article was also posted on Huffpost Canada.